Infidelity is a choice but the interesting fact is that it too can be prevented- and it certainly should be!
By cheating your better half, you don’t only lose a true
Maximum cases of extramarital affairs are workplace affairs. People indulged in infidelity generally regret after some time as the aftereffects of such actions are really painful. It scatters the family; you lose love and respect of your family members and much more. So, here are a few ways by which you can prevent this disaster to occur in your life and prevent unwanted stress:
Set your boundaries
The easiest and the best way is to have your boundaries set that prevents you to lose your exclusivity to your partners. Not indulging a lot with the attractive other, not spending alone time with the opposite sex, sharing about your friends with your spouse or girlfriend or boyfriend and such other boundaries if clearly set can help a lot to prevent you from indulging into affairs.
Avoid spending time alone with someone of the opposite sex
Everybody is well aware of whether they are attracted to a person of opposite sex or not and who he/ she is. So, making it clear not to spend alone time with the person you are sexually attracted to. If done, this may lead to some kind of intimacy which is definitely dangerous.
Strengthen your relationship
Many people think that a happy marriage is an insurance against infidelity but this is not 100% true. A happy marriage or a happy relationship may reduce the likelihood of getting into an affair with a third person. So, having a lovely, strong and happy relationship with your legitimate partner will definitely make you realize the value of your relationship and will prevent you to do anything that may hurt your partner.
Avoid frequent meetings and getting drunk with the attractive other
Avoiding the meetings and get-togethers where the third person you are attracted to is present is the best way to remain away from infidelity. And, everybody is aware of the fact that alcohol reduces inhibition and makes a person do something which is completely out of character. So, avoid getting drunk with that person and remove the naturally occurring inhibitions.
Always consider the long-term impact of infidelity before indulging into the same
It is very common for cheating partners to think that “they won’t be discovered”, “cheating is the easiest way of entertainment” and other similar lies- all thanks to Ashley Madison and other such greedy businesses. It is not at all true, at one point of time, most cheaters get discovered and from that very day, the sufferings begin.
Cheaters lose their true love, deal with divorce, leave their children (if any)devastated, loses love and respect of other family members and much more. So, always consider the consequences of what all you will be facing if you cheat
It is not difficult to stay loyal to your partner for a lifetime, all you need is to be a little smart and alert.